She worried about losing her possessions in a domestic violence shelter (a not unlikely scenario). And she was afraid of making it on her own again. Truthfully, I don't know all of her demons. And we lost touch. She quit her job, didn't have a phone, and I didn't know how to reach her. I don't know what happened to her. I hope to God that wherever she is today she is okay and safe.
It seems that mother nature equipped the male cat's penis with spiky backward pointing barbs that trigger ovulation in the female by painfully scraping the walls of the vagina (OUCH!!) as he exits. I'm sure glad I'm not a cat, though they are cute. Anyway, here are kitties, both domestic and feral, getting buck wild.
The combination of pumpkin and lavender was also a winner, and pumpkin seeds are healthful for male sexual functioning as well. So, just dab a little pie on your neck, and you're good to go. Just kidding. Better yet, try this recipe. Hirsch also found that black licorice increased penile blood flow by 13%. To arouse a woman, it's probably better to make a salad. Women are aroused by the smell of cucumber - particularly, cucumber and candy. Oddly, male cologne decreased arousal in women.
So, Have a Happy Thanksgiving!
I have always been interested in tantra but haven't had much luck in finding partners willing to try it. Most of them considered it fooey. So, here's a hilarious video for all of you who think that eye gazing, extended orgasms, semen retention, and Sting's reputed eight hour shagathons are total bullshit. Personally, I'm still willing to give it a try. But to each his own. I just hope I don't turn out like this guy lol.
From The New School of Erotic Touch
If there was no partner present, I took matters into my own more than able hands. Since I hit my forties, my sex drive has been up and down and all around the block. But mostly down.
However, when I was 41, I thought I had turned into a nymphomaniac. My libido went through the roof! Unfortunately, I had a partner who couldn't keep up and who had both sex drive and erectile dysfunction issues. So, I had a lot of DIY sex.
This guy likes to be naked a lot - so, it was just a matter of time till he made my man candy list. Lol. He is gorgeous and great musician, which sadly isn't a very common occurrence. Just take a look at Mick Jagger, Rod Stewart and Marilyn Manson to see what I mean. It seems like a lot of great rock stars have more talent than beauty. But not Lenny. Wow, he is smokin...
This video from Em & Lo addresses the issue of whether or not women can orgasm from just penetration alone. Most of the answers indicate the variety of women's experiences. For most women, the answer is no. According to sex researcher Shere Hite, only about 30% of women are orgasmic just from intercourse itself.
It's important to remember that the equivalent organ to the penis is not the vagina; it's the clitoris. Both the clitoris and the penis develop out of the same embryonic material, so naturally most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. Unfortunately, that's not what most of us see in porn and on the silver screen. For many women, combining clitoral stimulation (via your hand, his hand, or a vibe) with intercourse is more likely to lead to orgasm.
And the most important thing is to keep her clitoris in contact with the base of his penis. The movement used for this technique involves rocking together, rather than the man just thrusting away. This position can also be used with the woman's legs closed and with her on top. It creates an indirect form of clitoral stimulation that will work for some women. For other women, direct clit stimulation is going to be needed - so break out the vibe.